lon wrote:
女生都是"愛到卡慘死...(恕刪)
I really cant agree with you on this~ I think most of the girls do fit the profile but that is only when they desire love more than others. In this case, I think she would only see the "bling bling" then she would even open her eyes. This kind of relationship would only lead to the marriage tomb. Perhaps she has her side of stories regarding the material standards, for me, I would never in a million years in my life time to allow myself even just liking this girl. She is bad news man.
Just like what someone else said here, "dont lose the forest for a tree." She is not worth your time, energy and investment.
I think at the end when she really marry a doctor. The doctor would be even more materialistic than her and would not have time for her. Perhaps that's what she wants, she want the "bread" and not the "love". Once again, I think perhaps she is just protecting herself.
Tis Moi and you shall call me MoiPod
ribsome wrote:
千萬別當醫生娘......(恕刪)
沒有那麼慘啦...
我朋友考上專科醫師後...薪水還是不錯的
所以當醫師娘還是不錯的...
不過如果問我當初聯考可以重來...選醫科要不要...(小弟當時不材...只能考上私立醫學院)
我答案是...No Way...
我高中同學都說當專科醫生後壓力更大了...
我就回"身為你的高中同學,跑去讓你看病...壓力更大..."
不過我老婆嫁給我之後也沒過過幾天安逸血拼的日子。
我們客家民族的媳婦，本來就不是娶來在家疼的，媳婦娶進來是要跟家裡同心分攤家計的，
即便她的薪水不高也是要出去工作。
阿如果嫁給我不就.......
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女性還是不要有找經濟支柱這種想法比較好，家是兩個人的，現在給醫院聘請的醫師也是上下班有星期假日的，兩個人都有自己的世界，週末在一起才會覺得放鬆與充實。
我見過很多同事與前輩，一點不重視妻子的專業才華，只要他們在家相夫教子，時間過的久了，仍然在職場上奮戰的女人與在家投閒置散的完全是不同世界的人，希望有看到這篇的女性決不要有嫁個醫師可以在家安靜帶孩子的打算，這無論是對那個醫師或是對你自己都不是好遠景。
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