Relationship Q&A - Mobile01

Bizhub

Bizhub
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2008-10-04 1:51

Mobile01 是個百家爭鳴的匯點. 更是臥虎藏龍之寶地.

但到目前為止¸ 好像還沒有人設定一個以英文來溝通的討論題.

出國旅行也好, 職場奮戰也好, 相信大家都能認同英文溝通的需要性和重要性.

瀚寶哥就毛遂自薦帶頭嘗試用英文來聊聊你/妳我關切的問題.

無論妳/你是菜英文的家族成員或是喝過洋墨水有著 B.S., B.A, M.S., M.A., MBA, 甚至M.D., Ph.D 或 J.D.學位的朋友都歡迎加入. 不要太在意文法是否100%準確, 重點是鼓勵大家練習用英文發言或答覆, 相互增進英文表達能力.

現在就讓我們就從”兩性與感情”的分區討論開始. No pressure, just for fun!

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Preface:

Do you want a healthy and satisfying relationship?

Do you have what it takes to build trust and improve communication within your relationship?

Let’s chat!

Expert Wannabe “Humble Guy”

2008-10-04 1:51 發佈

文章關鍵字 Relationship Q

嚴禁唬濫

嚴禁唬濫
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2008-10-04 15:15

這位先生, 你現在有點像我在面試人家時.
看到對方英文能力勾選精通, 請他用英文簡單自我介紹, 屁都放不出一個, 不然就推說臨時沒有準備.

Bizhub

Bizhub
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2008-10-05 7:51

嚴禁唬濫 wrote:
這位先生, 你現在有...(恕刪)

Not sure if I understand your comment... a job interview scenario?

Anyway, the whole purpose of this thread is to encourage Mobile01 friends to engage in relationship discussions in English. It is just an attempt to make this forum a little more diversified.

Well, at least I tried.

圓嘟嘟的大眼妞

圓嘟嘟的大眼妞
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2008-10-05 10:44

Well, everyone wants to have a healthy and satisfying relationship.
But, it is difficult.

some people(most of us) think the relationship must be one by one.
In fact,it is not the only way.
some people think they are single, they have right to enjoy the comflex relationship not to be restrained.

The only way to build trust is that remenber and execute what you have promised.
Never to break your engagement.
If some one lied to me and I discovered the truth, maybe I won't believe what he/she say.
Or make a discount about what he/she say.

"Trust" is very important .
some people like the direct way to communicate. They just want to know the key point.
Don't talk too much. Or you may enrage them.

some people are full of sensibility, they are easily to moved to get a little present or a card.

Every one like to be admired.
don't be a stingy person, and give more praise to everyone.

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Bizhub

Bizhub
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2008-10-05 15:22

圓嘟嘟的大眼妞 wrote:
Well, ever...(恕刪)

My first (and hopefully not last) response!

圓嘟嘟的大眼妞, thank you for sharing your thought with us.

As you pointed out in your post, TRUST, HONESTY and COMMUNICATION are the keys to a truly healthy and satisfying relationship. I couldn't agree with you more.

People today are more careless about their personal relationship today than their old generations, but there is no right or wrong in my opinion.

I found this interesting and informative website called Pickthebrain.com and discovered 10 tips on building healthy relationships. These may come in handy for all of us.

1. Speak a little less. Listen a little more.
2. Which is more important being right or maintaining harmony?
3. Avoid gossip.
4. Forgiveness.
5. Know when to keep silent.
6. Right motive.
7. Oneness.
8. Humour (also spelled "Humor" in the U.S.)
9. Work at relationship but don't over analyze.
10. Concern and detachment.

Most of them are quite self-explanatory but here's the link for anyone interested to learn more:

http://www.pickthebrain.com/blog/build-healthy-relationships/

Have a great week ahead and best wishes to you!

豕萊西

豕萊西
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2008-10-06 1:43

All(or almost) humanbeings are selfish!

Therefore, people want a so called healthy-and-satisfying relationship to prevent their hearts from being hurt. However, I believe the whole issue depends on how you define a healthy and satisfying relationship. All in all, find a person or some people who can complete your life, then you might have a relationship(s) that meets your need. ^++^