借用別人的好文筆表達自己講不出的同感是件省力且痛快的事。
给老公前女友的一封信
你好：
本来应该称你一声姐姐，因为你是我老公的前女友，而且你一定比我老，但想了半天还是不叫的好，不然给人感觉我像二房，其实咱才是原配。非常感谢你在我没出现的时候照顾着我老公，频繁给他发短信打电话，以你们之前的感情来安抚他寂寞的心灵。你的短信我都看到了，虽然他删掉了部分自己认为可能不好给我看到的东西，但基本的情况我还是知道，你在带他回忆你们的过去，或许还想畅想下不可能的未来。还有用你那坚强的泪水装个小可怜什么的。
没关系，我知道单身的人吗 心灵比较空虚，回忆旧情很容易。而且我也有过刻骨铭心的爱恋，我也偶尔也会想到那个爱过但不能在一起的人。跟你不同的是，我不会去打扰他的生活，不会过多回忆曾经的幸福，因为我深信他不跟我在一起也会很幸福，没有谁是谁的唯一，我只会在心里默默地祝福他过得好，过得更好。
所以，我并不清楚你做这些事情是个啥意思。聊聊天也就算了，还打电话流泪，是想让他忘不了你？还是想跟他说，我等着你，等到地老天荒，等你一万年？
在我之前，你跟我老公相处有两年时间。老公说过，你是他原来很爱很爱的女朋友，说起过你的事情，夸过你的好，说过你的聪明与活泼，也说过你的刁蛮和任性，说过你们不可能在一起的原因，没什么特别的避讳。你也许不知道，
老公跟我讲，你们不能在一起，很大程度上是两个人性格不合，你爱吵，他迁就，时间长了两个人谁也受不了；而且谁都不愿意长时间为对方妥协，于是日积月累，感情被磨空。
他的说法，我很理解。有时候差异化确实能磨平一段感情。特别是在两个人都不甘示弱、自以为清高时。而当时间过去很久之后，再回头想时，会觉得那些差异并不是两个人之间存在的问题，会很后悔当初的放弃。由此说来，我也很理解你，也许你这两年想来想去，还是爱他。也许他心里，也会因没在一起、因为跟我时不时在生活琐事上发生的矛盾而偶尔回忆起你的好。但，这又能说明什么呢？？
我不知道，你当时跟他谈恋爱时，是否有过相伴一生的想法。如果你有过，你就应该接受他所有的好与不好，接受他所有的优点与陋习，甚至家庭。真挚的爱情，和谐的性格，彼此相同的生活习惯，这才是婚姻最坚实的基础。明白吗？
人没有什么好清高的，爱一个人，互相妥协一些，很正常。不知道你是不是跟我跟一样，也是独生子女，是被父母宠爱长大的，甚至我比你年龄小，但我比你懂得接受与宽容。老公曾经在刚刚跟我恋爱时就说过，很多事情，他在你面前丝毫不敢表露，但在我面前，他无所隐瞒。你以为让男人怕你，肆无忌惮的宠你是件好事吗？我不这么认为。一个好女人，应该让自己爱的男人在自己面前，感到无比的轻松与惬意。
不过说到底，其实我一点也不完美。我也有许多陋习，也曾经做错事情，把他气得要死，也许你从来都没把他气到过那个样子；我也经常冒傻气，这又怎么啦，人无完人。他也有很多毛病和问题啊。只要大的方向，我们一致，就有了最坚实的婚姻和感情基础，至于默契感，是慢慢培养起来的，谁也不是谁肚子里的蛔虫。
老公的QQ，不好意思，把你删掉了。没其他意思，只是不想给自己心里添堵。当然，你跟我老公打招呼，老公还是的礼貌的回应你下
如果你想他的时间是在每日白天，那时候他正在昏天暗地的工作，没时间想你；如果你想他是在每天傍晚，那时候他正在陪我外出散步聊天数星星，不断地思考畅想安排着着我们有了宝宝后的美好生活；如果你想他是在每个入夜，那么那时候怀抱着我给我讲故事，然后被我欺压蹂躏一番，酣然入睡。
说了这么多，你还在畅想你们的未来没？如果你还在畅想，觉得他也还爱你，你们还有可能在一起，那么请你考虑以下条件：
如果你能接受他到家就把臭袜子脱了丢一旁 让你来洗
如果你能接受他睡觉时喜欢翻滚大半个床，睡觉时无意识地把整个被子都压在自己身下无意识地让你受冻一夜
如果你能宽容地看待他的大男子主义，事事都不容许自己出错，一旦出错，保持沉默，等他情绪好的时候听他诉说帮他分析解决问题
如果你能接受他爱自己的家庭、爱自己的爸爸妈妈和哥哥媳胜过爱你，看自己的家庭高于一切，所有事情都先替自己家里考虑，只要是家里的意见无论对错都言听计从……
先就这些吧，如果你都能接受，那你倒可以尝试下，做他的妻子。
最后说一点，关于他爱谁。我打心眼里知道骄傲的你肯定认为他一直是爱你的，直到现在，你们没在一起是因为客观原因。 在当他遇到困难，不开心的时候，那个时候，你又在哪里？
很多人说，男人对一个女人最大的爱与尊重，就是给她婚姻。你说呢？
不说了，大家都不是不善良的人，希望你自重，也能早日找到自己的幸福。
幫翻繁體
你好：
本來應該稱你一聲姐姐，因為你是我老公的前女友，而且你一定比我老，但想了半天還是不叫的好，不然給人感覺我像二房，其實咱才是原配。非常感謝你在我沒出現的時候照顧著我老公，頻繁給他發短信打電話，以你們之前的感情來安撫他寂寞的心靈。你的短信我都看到了，雖然他刪掉了部分自己認為可能不好給我看到的東西，但基本的情況我還是知道，你在帶他回憶你們的過去，或許還想暢想下不可能的未來。還有用你那堅強的淚水裝個小可憐什麼的。
沒關係，我知道單身的人嗎心靈比較空虛，回憶舊情很容易。而且我也有過刻骨銘心的愛戀，我也偶爾也會想到那個愛過但不能在一起的人。跟你不同的是，我不會去打擾他的生活，不會過多回憶曾經的幸福，因為我深信他不跟我在一起也會很幸福，沒有誰是誰的唯一，我只會在心裡默默地祝福他過得好，過得更好。
所以，我並不清楚你做這些事情是個啥意思。聊聊天也就算了，還打電話流淚，是想讓他忘不了你？還是想跟他說，我等著你，等到地老天荒，等你一萬年？
在我之前，你跟我老公相處有兩年時間。老公說過，你是他原來很愛很愛的女朋友，說起過你的事情，誇過你的好，說過你的聰明與活潑，也說過你的刁蠻和任性，說過你們不可能在一起的原因，沒什麼特別的避諱。你也許不知道，
老公跟我講，你們不能在一起，很大程度上是兩個人性格不合，你愛吵，他遷就，時間長了兩個人誰也受不了；而且誰都不願意長時間為對方妥協，於是日積月累，感情被磨空。
他的說法，我很理解。有時候差異化確實能磨平一段感情。特別是在兩個人都不甘示弱、自以為清高時。而當時間過去很久之後，再回頭想時，會覺得那些差異並不是兩個人之間存在的問題，會很後悔當初的放棄。由此說來，我也很理解你，也許你這兩年想來想去，還是愛他。也許他心裡，也會因沒在一起、因為跟我時不時在生活瑣事上發生的矛盾而偶爾回憶起你的好。但，這又能說明什麼呢？ ？
我不知道，你當時跟他談戀愛時，是否有過相伴一生的想法。如果你有過，你就應該接受他所有的好與不好，接受他所有的優點與陋習，甚至家庭。真摯的愛情，和諧的性格，彼此相同的生活習慣，這才是婚姻最堅實的基礎。明白嗎？
人沒有什麼好清高的，愛一個人，互相妥協一些，很正常。不知道你是不是跟我跟一樣，也是獨生子女，是被父母寵愛長大的，甚至我比你年齡小，但我比你懂得接受與寬容。老公曾經在剛剛跟我戀愛時就說過，很多事情，他在你面前絲毫不敢表露，但在我面前，他無所隱瞞。你以為讓男人怕你，肆無忌憚的寵你是件好事嗎？我不這麼認為。一個好女人，應該讓自己愛的男人在自己面前，感到無比的輕鬆與愜意。
不過說到底，其實我一點也不完美。我也有許多陋習，也曾經做錯事情，把他氣得要死，也許你從來都沒把他氣到過那個樣子；我也經常冒傻氣，這又怎麼啦，人無完人。他也有很多毛病和問題啊。只要大的方向，我們一致，就有了最堅實的婚姻和感情基礎，至於默契感，是慢慢培養起來的，誰也不是誰肚子裡的蛔蟲。
老公的QQ，不好意思，把你刪掉了。沒其他意思，只是不想給自己心裡添堵。當然，你跟我老公打招呼，老公還是的禮貌的回應你下
如果你想他的時間是在每日白天，那時候他正在昏天暗地的工作，沒時間想你；如果你想他是在每天傍晚，那時候他正在陪我外出散步聊天數星星，不斷地思考暢想安排著著我們有了寶寶後的美好生活；如果你想他是在每個入夜，那麼那時候懷抱著我給我講故事，然後被我欺壓蹂躪一番，酣然入睡。
說了這麼多，你還在暢想你們的未來沒？如果你還在暢想，覺得他也還愛你，你們還有可能在一起，那麼請你考慮以下條件：
如果你能接受他到家就把臭襪子脫了丟一旁讓你來洗
如果你能接受他睡覺時喜歡翻滾大半個床，睡覺時無意識地把整個被子都壓在自己身下無意識地讓你受凍一夜
如果你能寬容地看待他的大男子主義，事事都不容許自己出錯，一旦出錯，保持沉默，等他情緒好的時候聽他訴說幫他分析解決問題
如果你能接受他愛自己的家庭、愛自己的爸爸媽媽和哥哥媳勝過愛你，看自己的家庭高於一切，所有事情都先替自己家裡考慮，只要是家裡的意見無論對錯都言聽計從……
先就這些吧，如果你都能接受，那你倒可以嘗試下，做他的妻子。
最後說一點，關於他愛誰。我打心眼裡知道驕傲的你肯定認為他一直是愛你的，直到現在，你們沒在一起是因為客觀原因。在當他遇到困難，不開心的時候，那個時候，你又在哪裡？
很多人說，男人對一個女人最大的愛與尊重，就是給她婚姻。你說呢？
不說了，大家都不是不善良的人，希望你自重，也能早日找到自己的幸福。
Should have said you gave my sister, because you are my husband's ex-girlfriend, and you must be older than me, but thought for a long time or not called, or giving the impression that I like the two-bedroom, in fact, we are the first wife. Thank you very much to you when I did not take care of my husband, frequently send text messages to call to him, to appease his feelings before you lonely hearts. I see your SMS, although he deleted the part of yourself that may not be good for me to see things, but I know basic you in with his memories of your past, and perhaps also the Imagination under impossible in the future. Installed a little pathetic there with your strong tears something.
It does not matter, I know that single people do mind is emptiness, memories, old friends easily. And I also had a memorable love, and I occasionally think of the people that loved but can not be together. Tell you, I will not bother his life, not too many memories of the once happy, because I am convinced that he did not with me will be very happy, not who is who, I will only silence in the heart bless his better life, a better life.
So, I do not know you do these things is Gesha meaning. Chat with no problem, also called tears, want him to forget you? To say to him, I'm waiting for you to wait until the end of time, waiting for you for a thousand years?
I get along with my husband two years. Said her husband, your girlfriend is his original love love spoken of things, praise your good, said you clever and lively, also said that the unruly and wayward said that you do not may together, nothing special taboo. You may not know,
The husband told me, you can not be together, to a large extent the personality clashes of two people, you love noisy, he accommodate a long time, the two people who can not stand; And no one wants to compromise for each other for a long time, So over time, the feelings are grinding empty.
He's saying, I understand very well. Sometimes the difference can really grind a relationship. Especially when the two people are not to be outdone themselves aloof. Of time long after the turn once more to think that those differences are not between two people, you will regret had to give up. In this scenario, I quite understand you, maybe you two years much deliberation, still love him. Perhaps he was also not together, because occasionally recalled with me from time to time on the trivia of life contradictions you good. But can this say? ?
I do not know, when did you fall in love with him, had the idea of a lifetime. If you have, you should accept all of his good and bad, to accept all his advantages and bad habits, even family. Sincere love, harmonious character, are identical to each other habits, this is the most solid foundation of marriage. Do you understand?
Nothing lofty, love, compromise some normal. Do not know that you are not with me with the same, is only one child, parents pet growing up, or even younger than you, but I am better than you know how to accept and tolerance. Husband ever fall in love with me just said, a lot of things in front of you, he did not dare reveal, but in front of me, he was nothing to conceal. Do you think men afraid of you, and unscrupulous pet is a good thing? I do not think so. A good woman should own love of men feel very relaxed and comfortable in front of their own.
Ultimately, though, in fact, I'm not perfect. I have many bad habits, has also been done wrong, he got mad, maybe you never did he gas to that way; I often fatuous, this is how you, no one is perfect. He also has a lot of problems and issues. Large direction, we are consistent, have a solid marriage and emotional foundation, and gradually build up the sense of understanding, nobody who stomach roundworm.
Husband's QQ, sorry, you deleted. No other meaning, just do not want to give his thoughts clogging up. Of course, you are greeted with my husband, the husband or the polite response to your next
If you want his time in the daily daytime, when he let an think you do not have time; if you think he is in every evening, when he is to accompany me out for a walk chat a few stars, constantly thinking Imagination arrangement with significantly better life after we have a baby; If you want him at every nightfall, then time to embrace me tell my story, then I oppress ravaged some sleep soundly.
Having said that, you are still not Imagine your future? If you are still in the Imagination, think he still loves you, you still may be together, and then ask you to consider the following conditions:
If you can accept his home put dirty socks off the throw aside to wash
If you can accept his sleep like tumbling more than half of the bed, unconscious sleep the entire quilt under pressure in their own body unconsciously make you cold night
If you can view his machismo tolerance, nothing will allow their own mistakes, once the error, to remain silent, and so he in a good mood when listening to him tell to help him analyze and solve problems
If you can accept that He loves his family, loves his mom and dad and brother daughter-in-law than love you, to see their families above all, all things considered first for their own home, as long as the home, rightly or wrongly toe ... ...
First, if you can accept that you pour can try to be his wife.
Final say about who he loves. I know the psyche of pride you sure that he always love you, until now, you did not together because of objective reasons. In when his difficulties unhappy when that time you where?
Many people say, a man to a woman, love and respect, that is, to her marriage. What do you think?
Do not say we are not good people, and I hope you weight, can soon find their own happiness.
吹雪丸 wrote:
Hello:
Should have said you gave my sister, because you are my husband's ex-girlfriend, and you must be older than me, but thought for a long time or not called, or giving the impression that I like the two-bedroom, in fact, we are the first wife. Thank you very much to you when I did not take care of my husband, frequently send text messages to call to him, to appease his feelings before you lonely hearts. I see your SMS, although he deleted the part of yourself that may not be good for me to see things, but I know basic you in with his memories of your past, and perhaps also the Imagination under impossible in the future. Installed a little pathetic there with your strong tears something.
It does not matter, I know that single people do mind is emptiness, memories, old friends easily. And I also had a memorable love, and I occasionally think of the people that loved but can not be together. Tell you, I will not bother his life, not too many memories of the once happy, because I am convinced that he did not with me will be very happy, not who is who, I will only silence in the heart bless his better life, a better life.
So, I do not know you do these things is Gesha meaning. Chat with no problem, also called tears, want him to forget you? To say to him, I'm waiting for you to wait until the end of time, waiting for you for a thousand years?
I get along with my husband two years. Said her husband, your girlfriend is his original love love spoken of things, praise your good, said you clever and lively, also said that the unruly and wayward said that you do not may together, nothing special taboo. You may not know,
The husband told me, you can not be together, to a large extent the personality clashes of two people, you love noisy, he accommodate a long time, the two people who can not stand; And no one wants to compromise for each other for a long time, So over time, the feelings are grinding empty.
He's saying, I understand very well. Sometimes the difference can really grind a relationship. Especially when the two people are not to be outdone themselves aloof. Of time long after the turn once more to think that those differences are not between two people, you will regret had to give up. In this scenario, I quite understand you, maybe you two years much deliberation, still love him. Perhaps he was also not together, because occasionally recalled with me from time to time on the trivia of life contradictions you good. But can this say? ?
I do not know, when did you fall in love with him, had the idea of a lifetime. If you have, you should accept all of his good and bad, to accept all his advantages and bad habits, even family. Sincere love, harmonious character, are identical to each other habits, this is the most solid foundation of marriage. Do you understand?
Nothing lofty, love, compromise some normal. Do not know that you are not with me with the same, is only one child, parents pet growing up, or even younger than you, but I am better than you know how to accept and tolerance. Husband ever fall in love with me just said, a lot of things in front of you, he did not dare reveal, but in front of me, he was nothing to conceal. Do you think men afraid of you, and unscrupulous pet is a good thing? I do not think so. A good woman should own love of men feel very relaxed and comfortable in front of their own.
Ultimately, though, in fact, I'm not perfect. I have many bad habits, has also been done wrong, he got mad, maybe you never did he gas to that way; I often fatuous, this is how you, no one is perfect. He also has a lot of problems and issues. Large direction, we are consistent, have a solid marriage and emotional foundation, and gradually build up the sense of understanding, nobody who stomach roundworm.
Husband's QQ, sorry, you deleted. No other meaning, just do not want to give his thoughts clogging up. Of course, you are greeted with my husband, the husband or the polite response to your next
If you want his time in the daily daytime, when he let an think you do not have time; if you think he is in every evening, when he is to accompany me out for a walk chat a few stars, constantly thinking Imagination arrangement with significantly better life after we have a baby; If you want him at every nightfall, then time to embrace me tell my story, then I oppress ravaged some sleep soundly.
Having said that, you are still not Imagine your future? If you are still in the Imagination, think he still loves you, you still may be together, and then ask you to consider the following conditions:
If you can accept his home put dirty socks off the throw aside to wash
If you can accept his sleep like tumbling more than half of the bed, unconscious sleep the entire quilt under pressure in their own body unconsciously make you cold night
If you can view his machismo tolerance, nothing will allow their own mistakes, once the error, to remain silent, and so he in a good mood when listening to him tell to help him analyze and solve problems
If you can accept that He loves his family, loves his mom and dad and brother daughter-in-law than love you, to see their families above all, all things considered first for their own home, as long as the home, rightly or wrongly toe ... ...
First, if you can accept that you pour can try to be his wife.
Final say about who he loves. I know the psyche of pride you sure that he always love you, until now, you did not together because of objective reasons. In when his difficulties unhappy when that time you where?
Many people say, a man to a woman, love and respect, that is, to her marriage. What do you think?
Do not say we are not good people, and I hope you weight, can soon find their own happiness.(恕刪)
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