可是樓主的問題是發生在集體的聯誼, 男女素未謀面, 大家一起出來聊聊, 一起認識一下罷了, 連對方是不是自己的菜都不知道就要男方付錢, 這真的很離譜, 如果男方看中某位女生, 想要追求她, 那麼這時再來談兩個男女之間誰付錢也不遲, 不是嗎?
看了站上一些女生的回應, 真的無言以對
反正平常一次認識十幾個女生的機會也沒那麼多,就當作是逛costco賣場嘛,繳個入場費,
沒喜歡的就隨便看看,有喜歡的再下手,起碼付錢吃過飯打過照面得到她的聯絡資料了,
把起來難度總比路上逛看到正妹直接搭訕低一點吧
當然男生付錢是不公平的,我也不贊成,但是要我去付我還是會付...
為甚麼呢?買個機會嘛.就跟買保險一樣.
付錢買旅遊意外險然後墜機賺到保險金的機率比較高?(聽說是數億分之一)
還是聯誼請客遇到正妹的機率比較高?
(聯誼一百次還一個正妹都遇不到嗎?)那為甚麼還那麼多人犯傻去買保險?
我講話也許衝一點,但是我覺得樓上好像很多阿宅沒聯過幾次誼,不懂得聯誼的一些"眉角",
就嘴砲全開否定聯誼的價值...
就算是lover最後還是會over就算要fuck起初也要有fu就算是believe中間還是有個lie
ok...here is goes
just read, if u disagreee, i dont give it dame
and if u read and u are nodding ur head
or u are thinking,
ah, baga, i went out with a good friend, she's my angel...and i didn pay for u are wrong
i had guys buying me prada key ring, lv and all the labels i carry and he ASSUMED I NEED OR LIKE IT
LET ALONE THAT i buy gucci shoes, coz its good leather and hand made
last loner
comfy,
girls like me can buy luxury things....with out men
i got father mother support, i'm uni student at Auckland
i think guys and girl go on group date.....should split
my boys good friends, yinglong xie who owns a Honda Blue R type...and also takes me to church when i got no car...(i bus, i dont know how to drive...i hate and afraid to drive like annie wu...)
i taxi or just bus, most like to walk from my apartment to uni
anyways....he is a perfect hong kong chinese friend, 22...gemini....love his treating me with respect...also, pays for light meals....pays me the beer, i go to his house his parents are good, and i play piano or eat fruits and drink beer at his place
u know boy and girl at first just need to be good bro and sis like at church family,
then friend
and then gooooood friend
maybe soul mate? and if u guys are like the whole ying yang
water fire? gold and diamond? pearls and sea sheels?
and maybe rabbit and pig?
me i am ash tray only for him to use
and he is my teru teru bouzu, only with him i see sunny clear sky!
he dries all my tears away
he's 26 and so much more mature, and REPONSIBLE and so much more and more and way way more Truthful and loyal....luck i met him at my church, and his bro jeff is married with a baby girl, so luck~i admire!!and desire my own family? soon?? :P
i'm ready ....so why worry go dutch? u pay i pay they pay we share?
best like me, he drives, i pay for food and drinks?
he goes bbal game, i go, water bottle, ice packs ready, and shout and cheeeer~~for them
like the jap drama "To Heart..." the boxing guy
get it?
u people worry too much
yes ter day is HISTORY
TO MOR ROW IS MYS TERY...
TODAY IS PRESENT TENSE...
BE PRESENT.....its a Gift from God...get it get it??????
Love is not meant to be kept locked inside
if u seek and find and faithfull love the Lord ur shepherd...
He will guide u....and love u, coz u are like son and dauther of God...
We shall not perish
we have eternal life
we go to paradise..................heaven~
ok? Amen!
dont think or raitionalised.....alot of feelings come, GOOD LUCL
FOLLOW JESUS
AND WALK WITH UR OWN VOICE FROM HEART!
SPEAK U P!!!!!!!!!!!!
kate166 wrote:
不然這樣好了，不想裝大方，那裝賢慧總行了吧？
畢竟男女平等的時代，女生也不缺錢，賢慧些也能加分
如果又覺得，為什麼，為什麼，為什麼，我是男生耶
那只有回家當媽寶了...(恕刪)
雖然不太懂既然不缺錢那幹嘛就是不付呢
不過
現在我懂了
原來要甘心幫女人付錢當盤子的才叫成熟的男人啊
那麼那些出門沒幫男人付錢的女性是不是也該滾回家玩妳的芭比娃娃或抱爸爸大腿？
在探討男人為何小氣省那小錢時
是否該回頭探討為何女人要小氣貪那小錢？
吃頓飯就可以娶到老婆或虧到妹嗎？
講難聽點在步入交往穩定期之前
一些傻傻比較沒有手段的男性已經花了不知道幾次這種小錢了
積少成多 三百五百一千的一路走來若去珠海還有找咧
就算交往後結婚後難道就換老婆女友請你了嗎？
還不是一樣要付錢
呵
要不然就賺多點錢摸摸鼻子給認為男性該付錢的女性敲
要不就學習逆向操作創造出自己的差異
懂得就懂
不懂的就繼續花學費吧
非親非故也不熟也不是好朋友,男女雙方的關係更不是男女朋友,男性出錢為何是"義務"?
如果說是偶爾"互相請客",這種禮尚往來的關係倒也無所謂,但認為男性出錢是天經地義,這不是擺明要佔便宜,將男性當凱子嗎?
女性這種佔便宜的心態真的很要不得.....但偏偏有不少男人喜歡當凱子.....一昧的想靠砸錢去討好對方.....
這點小錢也不是付不起,千元以內都是小錢,這是"奇檬子"的問題,今天誰喜歡被當成凱子,男性不出錢就是小氣?
女性一天到晚在高喊要男女平等,一遇到付錢的事就不平等了.
女性一天到晚在要求男性別物化女性,一遇到付錢的事就甘願被物化了.
那一直喊要平等是喊假的嗎?
神也是妳,鬼也是妳,利益妳全要,義務全不要,這樣乾脆回到男性的霸權時代好了.
我發覺會要求男性付錢的女性,大部份都是用錢就砸的動的女性,你砸不動是因為你錢砸的還不夠.....
這也難怪.....有錢人永遠有玩不完的女人,女性都很吃這套.....
我每次說感情是花錢買來的,這都會有人要反駁,但依照台灣被扭曲的兩性價值觀,感情真的是靠錢買的.....
如果說肯花錢就可以把到妹,這都還算有所回報,問題是大部份的情況,錢花出去都只是肉包子打狗.....
男人大方只是在幫別人養老婆.....
我年輕時也經歷過"傻子"階段,但我現在清醒了.
辛辛苦苦的打一堆字，你還是難逃被刪被鎖的命運，大家不如長話短說吧！【01文字獄的時代，正式來臨】
ray0808_pilot wrote:
我講話也許衝一點,但是我覺得樓上好像很多阿宅沒聯過幾次誼,不懂得聯誼的一些"眉角",
就嘴砲全開否定聯誼的價值...
有人要當凱子出錢, 別說女生, 連我男生都很想跟你交朋友吃喝你一頓了,
你如果看過那種已經跟男朋友論及婚嫁的女人, 聽到有地方白吃白喝都要
跑去沾便宜的場面, 就知道什麼叫阿呆~~~
當然啦, 撒個流刺網總是有機會撈到魚, 不過付完飯錢, 下一步就是準備展現身家財產,
這個要是沒過, 前面飯錢就全部丟大海了. 所以我覺得根本不用花力氣在飯錢上,
只要你有房產再加個進口車, 女生對你的好感值馬上起飛, 就算你不出飯錢照樣
對你好的很. 想靠個小錢就想收買人心是不可能的, 女人只會把那個當做你應該做的基本工作
而已, 有幾百萬甚至幾千萬的身家拿出來才是王道阿.....
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