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我的問題很大嗎?更新


Yumomocat wrote:
可是我沒常拒絕他呀!...(恕刪)


我想,他大概認為以前的行為模式一直都沒什麼改變.....

要不就請他多幫忙小孩的事(不然就弄個情趣用品讓他自行嚕到爆炸)
男人是靠下半身思考.他想要時又被你拒絕.....可能會找外面管道.如果是花錢到還好.如果放感情你就知道了
各有各的忙碌狀況跟放鬆狀況........我是男人我跟你說男人很好應付

Yumomocat wrote:
可是我沒常拒絕他呀!...(恕刪)


一個月4-5次
太少了拉
至少要8-10次

Yumomocat wrote:
可是
我沒常拒...(恕刪)


雙方的認知問題

妳覺得一個月4~5次 算可以了
可是他想要的更多? (一周2~3次?)
這中間就有落差了....


Yumomocat wrote:
可是我沒常拒絕他呀!...(恕刪)


男人精液蓄積太多
會歸覽趴火
會抓狂的
婚姻裡很多事,

退一步就是往前一步。


找個對的點補償給他。

再找個對的時間、血拼給自己。

彼此找出平衡點,日子就好過。

在一起就是讓彼此開心。


有些男人就是很重視性。

給糖吃,就不會搗蛋了。

順著毛摸準沒錯。



Ps.你老公生氣,會不會潛意識跟小朋友爭寵有關?

diken0955 wrote:
我想,他大概認為以前...(恕刪)


我以為2天一次很正常耶 ... = =

8~10次不知道他怎麼想,哈哈~
有時確定孩子睡了準備好了,在看電視的他還傳訊息說要再10分鐘
是怎樣,某節目沒看完嗎?
事情我做,孩子我帶,時間配合你,這樣興致在哪?
即使這樣我也不會因此拒絕
I have a few points to share with you here.
When a man want sex, that means he is HUNGRY for it, just like you are hungry for food. Actually, it's sex that drives a man to marry a woman. It’s cruel to let people be hungry, right? If, too often, his sex desire can’t be satisfied, then his whole mental and physical conditions will be unstable, and then a lot of problems will ensue. The worst final consequence may be that he wanna divorce you in the future. That’s not want you wanna see, right?
2.You’ve obviously spent TOO much time and energy on your kids. There is, at least, no need to keep them company till they fall asleep when they go to bed. Just "kiss and say goodbye" is enough. To pamper kids is not a good thing, I think. In a way the relationship between you couple is far more important than that of you and your kids. When your kids grow up, they will leave you and build their new families, loving their women instead of you, an old mom. Your husband is, actually, the one who will be with you till you or he die. In addition, you can’t deny that poor relationship between you and your husband would inevitably cause negative influences on your kids, right?
3.My wife and I will turn 50 in few years, but we still have wonderful sex every 4 days on average. If your hubby is a normal man, that means you let him be in frequent hunger knowingly or unknowingly.
Just my thoughts for your reference!

Yumomocat wrote:
昨晚外子算跟我冷戰,...(恕刪)


我是覺得~~~~可以跟老公說一個月的某幾天是需求日~~~~
這樣子似乎準備好會比較好處理~~~~
不知道妳覺得好不好~~~
當個小資的職業婦女,看看能不能嘻嘻哈哈過下半輩子。
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