I have a few points to share with you here. When a man want sex, that means he is HUNGRY for it, just like you are hungry for food. Actually, it's sex that drives a man to marry a woman. It’s cruel to let people be hungry, right? If, too often, his sex desire can’t be satisfied, then his whole mental and physical conditions will be unstable, and then a lot of problems will ensue. The worst final consequence may be that he wanna divorce you in the future. That’s not want you wanna see, right? 2.You’ve obviously spent TOO much time and energy on your kids. There is, at least, no need to keep them company till they fall asleep when they go to bed. Just "kiss and say goodbye" is enough. To pamper kids is not a good thing, I think. In a way the relationship between you couple is far more important than that of you and your kids. When your kids grow up, they will leave you and build their new families, loving their women instead of you, an old mom. Your husband is, actually, the one who will be with you till you or he die. In addition, you can’t deny that poor relationship between you and your husband would inevitably cause negative influences on your kids, right? 3.My wife and I will turn 50 in few years, but we still have wonderful sex every 4 days on average. If your hubby is a normal man, that means you let him be in frequent hunger knowingly or unknowingly. Just my thoughts for your reference!