meekus wrote:
心中是想著"我沒事犯賤拿自己熱臉貼人家冷屁股"
...(恕刪)
妳已經說明白了
在她那樣對待妳以後
難道真的犯x嗎?????
Personally I was in the similar situation before where money came short
after everyone had paid in a big party.
I mean, despicable and horrible things can really come from your close friends. ( or whom you
thought they are)
I have been in the US for more than 10 years, and I know how commonly the word "FRIEND"
has been overused. "My friend this and my friend that" to show how connected they are. (
that is, to show their popularity which emphasizes their significance. )
Think about it, if they really considered you as a friend, you wouldn't have this trouble.
Friends are people that you can trust, not someone that hurt you.
And another thing, forget about the gift, she isn't worth it.
妳可以看清壽星的沒風度
妳也可以看清陷害妳的這位朋友的卑鄙
但是妳千萬不要讓別人也覺得妳跟他們一樣哦!
這時候妳更要把禮物送過去給他
如果妳能親自去
這樣更能顯示出妳的大氣
如果妳真的很不願意去 or 他當著妳的面不想收這個禮物
沒關係
也不要生氣
事後再請朋友轉交就好了
妳只要扮演好妳的角色
把妳該做的都做好就可以了
當妳大方的表現出妳寬大的胸襟時
不論是壽星 or 陷害妳的那個朋友 or 其他所知情的朋友們
他們都會打從心底的佩服妳 or 他們會覺得理虧而對妳感到抱歉
這麼做既能為自己留下好名聲
更能累積朋友之間的友誼
這就是雙贏的最佳表現
即使這時候有人不認同妳補送禮物給壽星
那妳也能藉由這個機會很清楚的知道這些人是不是妳真正的朋友了
ps.
我的朋友有分很多種
1.只是認識而已
2.普通朋友
3.熟識的朋友
4.好朋友
5.知己
對於不同層次的朋友
我都會有不同的對待方式
因為我沒必要將 "普通朋友" 當做 "好朋友" 般的付出 or 在意
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