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喪妻之痛

我曾跟另一半說過
愛我最極致的表現
就是讓我先走

一生很短
短到沒有時間爭吵
沒有時間分離
短到來不及讓愛滿溢

好好愛周遭的人
不要讓遺憾
留在人間

祝 情人節快樂
我是新來的,情人節來到這裡。看來同是天涯淪落人,心有戚戚焉。有些感觸,已經二十多年了,還依稀記得那段難熬的日子............她是突然間離開我的,在生產催生的時候,一個突然的變故,改變了我一生! 好像人一旦遇到這種生死離別,在學習適應的過程,都是必須付出代價的,時間的是療傷的靈丹妙藥,傷口會成疤,不會被忘記,只是不會再感覺痛。幾年前我父母也陸續離開我,彷彿我已學會了自己如何調適與療癒,或者是年紀大了也看得開了,慢慢就懂得怎麼生活下去。

找到一封寄不出去的情書,是在她過世兩年後我兒子生日也是她的忌日寫的,那時有些瘋狂,情緒不穩的時候就寫寫信,有中文有英文,找了一篇共鳴,英文語句可能不是那麼通順,請多見諒。

希望樓主早點走出來。唯一的建議,趕快找個新對象忘掉這一切吧!這很殘酷,當初我能走出來,新的女友也是現在我老婆幫了我很大忙,感謝主!

I am here to stay home being with you as usual. The difference is that I supposed you would come back tonight to see me as usual. Just taking a look of my eyes, I did not lose my soul for keeping you always in my deep memory that never erase. What a wonderful day you see, it is my son's birthday. It is your best gift to me. It is the best image I can pick up your face from my son. He is growing up and turns to be naughty and naughty. I knew it is your best wishes to let my son be healthy. I appreciate everything you were doing for me. I put my kisses on your face to ask your warm hug like the way we were. Lots of words like to let you know how hard I have made it without you. Thanks for our colleagues. They did help me a lot. I rely on your best friendship leaving their good kindness to me as well as to my son. What I think now is that I can't get any chance to feedback your love to me. I wonder I can go to your place for just a glance on your face. Supposed you should stay in a very peaceful place to enjoy your happiness of life in heaven, I can't be such selfish to solely satisfy myself. Everything is going so fast that I have no idea to ready my life for such kind of change but I really hope I can figure it out to accept my next turn of new life.

It has been two years since you past away. I really need your advises of my bearing to run my life. Everything seems so messy to me. Never think about I would get the God's favor to be more lucky but just wonder my life going more peacefully without any worry. Someone said I am like a still water losing the power to push forward. I should admit this is my weakness. Just like passing by a thunderstorm, all I need is to have a quiet place to stay calmly for my rest of life. I would keep my best shape of memory for those days being with you and say it is the only you that can move my heart toward you in deep inside
tina8888 wrote:
嗯,謝謝你,我知道你(恕刪)


你讓我哭了好久..
這樓讓我好悲傷,好難過!
Senior Lieutenant wrote:
我是新來的,情人節來(恕刪)


二年了,雖然還是常常看到某些場景,壓抑不住情緒,雖然很多畫面,依舊揮之不去,至少現在笑的時候,不再充滿著罪惡感,不再覺得自己不該開心。
走到這一步,我花了二年。
stevenchou wrote:
二年了,雖然還是常常(恕刪)



能走出來真的不容易
珍惜當下的幸福,加油
轉眼間已經11月了,他驟然離去惡夢般的經歷就快要滿一年,這些日子我還是常常揹著他的骨灰罈去看海、去賞花、去喝咖啡,但他卻都沒來夢裡見我,不知道是不是他待在我身邊不舒服,不知道他是不是想搬到其他更舒適的地方生活

我真的真的不想將他送走,但他遲遲沒來託夢讓我很是擔心,昨夜我答應他,會帶他去看看其他好地方讓他選擇……想請問北部地區有沒有方便自行搭車前往的靈骨塔或樹葬區?因為都只有我一個人過去,所以希望不要太偏僻荒涼,麻煩你們提供建議

很快的滿街都會充斥著聖誕歌曲,想到去年的種種,真不知能不能撐過去

tina8888 wrote:
轉眼間已經11月了,(恕刪)

法鼓山 好美 我的嚮往🙏1815往法鼓山

如果是我給對方的一句話~你過得好 才是我想要的...
tina8888 wrote:
北部地區有沒有方便自行搭車前往的靈骨塔...(恕刪)

慈恩園。
在台北市內。
不知道怎麼安慰你,你要加油!連她的份一起活下去
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