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女友提出要求;要求我的薪水要給她管

還好啦...樓主還這麼年輕
能這麼想也不算是壞事
只是當過幾年之後回頭想想這個決定
不知是慶幸還是
這世界既公平...也不公平...伯樂到處都有.....只是.....你並不是千里馬......
看完全文覺得你女友真的是太扯了....
一毛不拔的人,一起相處也很痛苦吧!
不過你還可以和他相處一年,相信她還是有什麼令你覺得值得的地方
試試看溝通吧,如果不行就早點換了....
看來版主心意已決,這棟樓蓋這麼高,該說的網友們也都說了。
只能祝版主有個好結果,或許大部份回文的人都想太多了。
Good luck!

鐵馬豬 wrote:
交往一年多的女友,最...(恕刪)

算那麼精喔~嘿咻完後不知道有沒有跟你收錢?

seba2005 wrote:
但價值觀這種東西,
我認為就算大量溝通也是不能改變的!
這牽扯到家庭教育與個人心態問題!


一般來說,要真正經歷過婚姻的人,才能體會很多事情真的是「溝通也無法改變」...
Well.

I don't want to see people keep questioning her motivations for buying goods. In my point of view, that was her money and she could do whatever she wants to do. Let's back to the point, I was not so happy to let her control my financial resources, and that is why I posted this discussion to public and sought for suggestions.

I am glad someone did give me some very thoughtful suggestions for a direction. But some others... I am sorry, but I am not here for your criticism. I appreciate all helpful shared experiences and suggestions. And I have taken all of them and have my own approaches generated already. Thank you all.

Anything else more than suggestions, sorry, I can't take them as I don't think that makes any good to me, to my girlfriend, or to my relationship.

My girlfriend, she might not be the perfect one in the world, she might want to buy some fancy big brand purses sometimes, she might want to buy some costly customer electronics for herself. But that all her money.

I have chosen my way to deal with it after so many suggestions. And I am not stupid, I will also have my firewall established for myself. Thanks for all given suggestions. Thank you.

David. New Delhi. India.




鐵馬豬 wrote:
交往一年多的女友,最...(恕刪)
David

Codiyao wrote:
一般來說,要真正經歷過婚姻的人,才能體會很多事情真的是「溝通也無法改變」.


{"有些人"} 溝通的方法,一哭二鬧三上吊....有招應付嗎
這裡是簽名檔吔

鐵馬豬 wrote:
Well. I do...(恕刪)


不宜久留
跑那麼遠~ 月入37K?
也不宜久留............

鐵馬豬 wrote:
Well. I do...(恕刪)


看完這些,基本上樓主很堅持自己的方向,
那就順其自然吧
Test

鐵馬豬 wrote:
交往一年多的女友,最...(恕刪)

老弟..
如同前面先敗說的
砍掉重練

只是我比較好奇
他有沒說...
"夜度資"怎麼扣...
笑笑就好,不要認真
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