這樣的條件，真不好找對象吧？（新補充置頂） (第19頁)

manup

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2015-12-19 0:50

富哥 wrote:
朋友、同學的年齡層...(恕刪)

剛開完會回來看到自己的版變成了閒聊版了，也好，一片和諧

謝謝仁兄你的螃蟹理論，十分認同，我想仁兄應該也是事業有成之人

會做事能做事的人本來多是爭議焦點，再受歡迎的人物也會被人非議

對於層次不同的人，我也沒什麼話好說，他們覺得如何就如何吧！

重點是我發文的目的順利達成就行了

最近在中國的事業體也漸入佳境，一切有如神助的順風順水

真的超感謝上天跟一路上的貴人

果然做事最重要的關鍵在於人，人對，事情就對了！

積極向上，機會終會降臨！

我現在是高興到興奮的睡不著覺！！

justdreamer

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2015-12-19 13:00

telecatw wrote:
Hi 喜歡音樂的朋...(恕刪)

Yes, long time no see, listened to any good concert, opera, etc. lately?

manup wrote:
您客氣了其實她所開...(恕刪)

If money is not an issue (enough to support a family), the most critical criteria for a long successful marriage is still whether or not you can get along and live together for the rest of your life. Whether or not a couple's personality is compatible is key. Value system is also important.

It can be difficult to hold a marriage together, if there is irreconcilable differences, that means trouble. Your family, society, culture, and your own experience & personality all shape the way you think and behave.

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2015-12-19 22:24

justdreamer wrote:
Yes, long...(恕刪)

Money is not every thing, but we can't do nothing without money.

Seeking life-long marital partners not only puts economic issue into consideration, but also match both inner thighs.

The most important character is one's personality, values of matters, and daily habits.
We can measure & imagine how to get a great marriage by finding someone who really obtains such advantage,thus, it may reduce the possibility of devoce.

It's hard to know someone who you really love, also, whom loves you as well. Only a heart with great effort which can make 2 strangers into the right ones! Fatalism is marvelous & it always happens to you when you're doing something without thinking of it!

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2015-12-20 0:55

shinrungsha wrote:
Money is not...(恕刪)

Yes, I couldn't agree with you more.

justdreamer

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2015-12-20 1:53

shinrungsha wrote:
Money is not...(恕刪)

錢不是萬能，沒錢萬萬不能。這句話很貼切。不過有時候太理智，就不容易結婚，想太多就怕"結昏"。

隨著年紀的增長，知道越來越多的離婚案子，要不是錢有一定重要性，我很想講兩個人的個性，人格，習慣，才是能不能在一起一輩子的條件。

人生有時候是無常的，現在有錢不一定代表以後也有，現在沒錢也不代表以後也沒有。兩個人經濟都不好，又沒有一技之長，只能賭運氣，命運的話，有點危險。有個一技之長，個性樂觀進取，不輕易放棄，被打敗，我是認為比在年輕時的收入多少但是個性等有問題來的好。

那天西奈山頂是Enki

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2015-12-20 8:49

justdreamer wrote:
Yes, long time no see, listened to any good concert, opera, etc. lately?

Long time, friend. :) certainly and recently I found hong kong youth symphony orchestra is good one for many reason.

One is ticket only cost 80 to have pretty good seat. never find the price at same zone when minstrel like lang lnag on the stage.

And then after participated several their performance. It's quite good only you must ignore some very few detached particular member. :) it still good, i meant

Most important thing is: you will find many youth refined beauties with good music for you all evening. What a great discovery!! man

manup

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2015-12-21 11:14

shinrungsha wrote:
Money is not...(恕刪)

As a married man, I'd say that marriage isn't fairy tale kinda story that as everyone would imagined before stepped in.

Prince and princess live happily ever after never truly happened in reality, well, maybe, but really a few.

It takes a lot more than hard work to keeps it up for both sides to stay in balance.

If one really wanna get married, there are more to take under consideration than financial issues.

Personal values and life goals, personality differences, parenting, background checks, etc.....

Keep this in mind: Even the tiniest thing that normally people don't care about, could cause a serious divorce case.

That's why some people prefer taking strict rules for picking their best the other half, in order to have the best chance to avoid a bad breaking up.

Nothing's guaranteed! Why not better prepared than regret later?

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2015-12-21 13:35

manup wrote:
那我運氣還不錯，目前為止事業運轉很順利，倒是那麼有指教的你，做了些什麼？目前又從事什麼事業？講出來讓我羨慕一下吧大笑

我脾氣衝但我重情重義，何況你大概沒聽過分工合作，處理客戶跟員工的人際關係上，我高情商的老婆就是我最好的幫手，有賢內助真好，你說是吧？不要羨慕，我知道你沒有所以心理不平衡到酸言酸語，胡言亂語大笑

至於我家的財產，我都沒有經手呢，目前我爸管理的好好的，他也才60歲，還很有幹勁，勞你費心了

很抱歉讓你失望了，我的生活不會比你差，但是我不想也不需要拿出來在那裡跟你這種狼性格非要比個高低~~我自己過的好就好了，不勞你費心~~~

還有，我一點也不羨幕你的生活，也不會心理不平衡，如果這樣想你會比較舒服那就隨你去囉~~

路過的微風

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2015-12-29 13:17

manup wrote:
As a married...(恕刪)

小弟已婚了
在台灣時也沒有年收300萬
唯一符合的大概是其他
在美國闖蕩過
在美的經歷應不怕被人比
找另一半真的不容易
幸好婚已結不用再煩惱了...

太優秀的女生真的不好找對象~

心的通透並非沒有雜念而是明白取捨

路過的微風

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2015-12-29 13:25

justdreamer wrote:
隨著年紀的增長，知道越來越多的離婚案子，要不是錢有一定重要性，我很想講兩個人的個性，人格，習慣，才是能不能在一起一輩子的條件。...(恕刪)

婦唱夫隨
PTT俱樂部會員
領零用錢過日子
還擔心會被罰跪電路板

老婆才捨不得離呢...

心的通透並非沒有雜念而是明白取捨