熱心台北女!? 我該CALL她嗎? + 8/1更新後續報導 (第19頁)

Invictus
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2011-08-08 17:34

蕩蕩與夯夯 wrote:
原本打算各付各的，但...(恕刪)

大大我之前有說啊~ 這是禮貌阿，人家請你道謝是應該的吧~連碁本禮貌都不懂的話，將來怎麼帶的出去勒~ 而且如之前po 本人對男人付錢是應該，不付是悲哀的人很感冒。要找凱子的話，小弟敬謝不敏，煩另請高就摟~

更新 oh ? 我們上禮拜沒出去阿，因為六日都滿約了~這禮拜再看看吧~這樓受到的關注遠比小弟一開始想像的多謝謝大家不過我想在講下去可能會有些麻煩~ 所以讓它沉吧~

I enjoy our discussion while it lasts ~ 謝謝大家給我練中打的機會

黑夜白晝

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2011-08-08 17:59

日久見人心～
認識久一點才會知道對方的心～
有的人會很假～
尤其是剛認識時～
都會把自己好的表現出來～
壞的都隱藏起來～
所以好壞真假要自己去了解～

不過多認識也沒啥不好的～
只是不要迷失囉～
如果要玩玩的話就別太認真～

Invictus

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2011-08-08 21:18

zuqa327 wrote:
i totally ...(恕刪)

ha do really I sound like I am a higher class and that she is in the lower class? well trust me when I said that I am trying mu best to avoid sounding like that as much as possible. I am sorry if I give people the impression of putting her down.I never meant to. Yes,I was evaluating her but that is all I meant to do. Evaluating her as objectively as possible without prejudice as in my profession we always assume the worse and hope for the best.

I am extra cautious mainly because many people I have met seem to get wrong ideas about me. As I probably already mentioned my family is doing ok but not really that rich. Therefore, I am doing what I can to tell the girl just that but it is not like I can just tell her this straight out. After all, who knows what she is really thinking right? all I can do is educated guesses.

I admitted I was evaluating her but again who wouldn't when you are approaching a new relationship that have a high potential to be a romantic one or maybe even something more. I am just approaching from many different angles.

My another concern is my family. Yeah we may not have much money compare with people who sell diamonds, oil or great land lord. However, I am from a very traditional and old family and have many rules & customs that many people today may find obscure or even ridiculous. Regardless, this is the family I am from and I need to find someone who can understand and coup with the pressure that is maybe why I sound so "snobbish" ~XD

As for escort service, I think we can rule that our already. She is a normal girl with normal profession at least that I what I can dig out from HR so far.

As for gold digger, well I think we can safely assume she is not your typical gold digger. Still I need to make sure she dose not get the wrong idea about me. If you are looking a life that you can sit at home all morning and drink afternoon tea with ladies of rich merchants and high government officials then I am sorry I am really not your guy. Yeah, I can let you do that once in awhile but just not everyday all day. My wife will definitely still need to work~XD

p.s. don't let me get started with mainlanders, my sister's bf is a son of a mainland official, he is an ok guy. However, some of his friends well I don't wanna bad mouth them. Let's just said, if I am girl, it will matter little even if they got a private jet or yacht, I still don't wanna be with them. Sometimes money isn't everything especially for girls with choices.

alisier

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2011-08-09 3:50

1.我覺得很多嫉妒的路人,你再怎麼解釋都沒用,這是人性,不必在意
2.財產財富車子豪宅那些,感覺起來如同孩童的玩具,比來比去就如同孩子们比誰的玩具新穎漂亮,有了又如何?沒有了又會怎麼樣?
3.99%的男人要性,99%的女人要錢, 這是鐵律,不要跟我說你只對醜肥女有性衝動/只愛軟濫男, 差就只差在吃相好不好看,一個願打,一個願挨,如此而已

將將的老爸

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2011-08-09 10:45

Invictus wrote:
ha do real...(恕刪)

樓主,看攏無!!
阿你不是要練中打?!

Invictus

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2011-08-09 10:45

alisier wrote:
1.我覺得很多嫉妒的...(恕刪)

哈哈～大大講的好呀，小弟也覺的比來比去是比不完的，自己生活過的自在高興，長長久久比較重要。看過太多從極奢到跌落的慘況，令人兮噓~ 小弟有一個家里世交的朋友(他爸在我爸剛開業的時候有大力幫忙過，所以兩家從小就有交往)，後來相繼出國。又剛好住在同一個區域，小弟住山角，他住山腰，依山看海。是高級住宅區中的高級住宅區，讀的也是有錢人多著名的學校，可惜如同很多獨自在外的小留學生，下課太早，不想回家。慢慢的交一群一樣孤獨無聊的朋友，也慢慢的染上很多不好的習慣，其中一項就是炫富，啥跟人比，尤其是車，他換車比我換手機，還快還簡單，沒幾個月就換一台，而且越換越好。

他爸後來知道，他開始走偏，也知到保母管不住他。有一陣子，每個六日都飛北美來看住他，飛到海關都認為他是販毒的，因為太常來，而且每次都只帶一個公事包而以，被扣下來問了好久，公事包都被解體，問不出名堂來才放他走。

後來他爸出事了，花好多錢，還是被關好幾年。出來後身體大不如前，事業也沒辦法在做了，後來回鄉下病。前陣子聽說有小中風，眼睛有一半看不見，現在連看書都不行了，有空種種菜，幸好還有老婆的退休金，要不然恐怕連生活都有問題。
兒子後來也因為老爸垮了，沒錢只好回國。聽說一改以前的習氣，在一家貿易公司，聽說做的還錯，老闆還給他一輛車開 (不過當然比不上他以前的車，他開時應該很感嘆吧)。但後來不知為什麼不幹了，又開始做些遊走於灰色地帶的事情。可能一般上班族的生活無法滿他吧～

Anyways, 他也不是特例，從小就常常聽過或親眼看到，許多人的成功的志得意滿到失敗的狼狽。我也有吃過，約２０年前台中大建商，後來擴張過大失敗，現在和他以前的女秘書（生意失敗老婆跑了）一起開的小麵攤，親手煮的麵。想到我小時後看他的威風八面，出門大家對他的逢迎，到現在開麵攤幾萬塊都要跟我爸“借”（我爸說他大老闆的習氣還，在１０萬以內他借是不會還的，１０萬對他而言，我猜可能就跟我們借人１０塊一樣是“小錢”）。就如同前面題到的伯伯一樣，從全盛時期到落魄江湖也不過短短２０年的光景～　　　

所以講這麼多，除了借機練打字外，就是要跟大家講。有錢除了本身努力和眼光外，時跟運也佔很大部份，得之難失之易。所以小第從來沒有以大富貴為目標，只要能順心，做自己想做的事，從中的到意義和樂趣，小弟就無憾了。當然也不會因為對方有錢與否，而來憑斷人家。　　　　　　

Invictus

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2011-08-09 10:56

將將的老爸 wrote:
樓主,看攏無!!阿你...(恕刪)

haha ~ 抱歉抱歉我家鍵盤沒中文要到辦公室才能打中文不過我剛剛才打好大一篇大大有興趣的話煩請斧正~

orange761106

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2011-08-09 11:18

If you are not looking for a real relationship, then don't fool around the poor girl ...

tk7810lin

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2011-08-09 12:20

你講的其實沒有錯，我認同巴菲特的觀點，子女有錢會作怪，有錢那是老爸的成就，如果只是生長在富爸爸的光環下，我真的也只感到悲哀罷了。自己的成就是自己的，巴菲特的子女都各有所長這是我覺得它是個模範父親

要有錢就要自己去爭取而不是跟父母拿

但是以現今的社會來說誰不希望有個有錢老爸呢

人家講的富不過3代指的就是指東亞的病態
而不會去學習西方的優點，反而會西方的缺點

嚴格說起來這樣才有財富重新分配的餘地
所以也沒什麼好抱怨的
貧窮人上，有錢人下
一直在不斷的循環
這就是人性

W-柳丁丁

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2011-08-09 14:06

看完大大的故事後

我覺得友機會去把握

可以先交朋友，做知己也不錯呀

我對你的故事開始有點興趣了，期待後續的發展

熱心台北女!? 我該CALL她嗎? + 8/1更新 後續報導

熱心台北女!? 我該CALL她嗎? + 8/1更新後續報導