Your post make me scare about marriage. Cause my girlfriend has some bad temper too. She is not as bad as your wife but it make me worry.
For your case, I think your only choice is divorce. My parents used to had some really bad argument in the past. When I was a kid, I always wish they can just break up. To me, I rather have a single parent, not a "completed" family.
For the baby, I think s/he is the most suffer in your case. Also, I am pretty sure the baby will much suffer from your wife's family. S/he will no way have a good healthy education life in her family. It will be the best if you can rise the kid even if s/he is not your child. But I know it is easy to say than done. But this is something worth to considerate. After all you can save a life.
I am wondering is your wife very pretty or has something really stand out? Otherwise, how could all this marriage mess happen? Really want to know.
Your post makes me scared about marriage, beause my girlfriend has some bad temper too. She is not as bad as your wife but it makes me worry.
For your case, I think your only choice is divorce. My parents used to have some really bad argument in the past. When I was a kid, I always wish they can just break up. To me, I rather have a single parent, not a "completed" family.
For the baby, I think s/he suffers the most in your case. Also, I am pretty sure the baby will much suffer from your wife's family. S/he will by no means have a good healthy education life in her family. It will be the best if you can raise the kid even if s/he is not your child. But I know it is easier said than done. But this is something worth considering. After all you can save a life.
I am wondering if your wife is very pretty or has something really stand out. Otherwise, how could all this marriage mess happen? Really want to know.
Hope you and your girlfriend be OK and don’t think too much, I don’t think your girlfriend as bad as my wife…
Truly saying, my wife treats me well when just only me get along with her(but hit me twice before when she angry…), I really don’t know why she treats my mom like a foe, and I don’t believe she doesn’t know the truth that if she roar and abuse to my mom must let me angry.. Of course I gave her many chances and persuade her all the time but finally I give up, because her purpose is to live far outside or let me rise the bb and she no need to pay anything then find a new guy, so she abuses my mom intentionally, it means the promises from her and her dad before we marry are all lies.. It really let me feel be set up..
So I won’t give her or her family any chance, if I still believe she will change equal to cheat myself, all I need to do now is only protect my mom and make my mom happy. About the bb, sorry I am not that kind to rise a kid but not mine, so I must check the DNA after bb birth then talk about who rise kid. Yes my wife is pretty but finally I knew it was me cheating myself to believe I can change her character just like what my doctor told me...