Ryomitomo wrote:
Yes, it's a two way street. He should accept everything about you and you should accept everything about him.
This is something I am still trying to get a good grasp on, even after 14 years of marriage. LOL
Exactly! But the thing is, well, you see, I don't accept what my folks did to me when I was young. And so, I won't ask him to accept everything about my folks, if they are totally nonsense, unacceptable, and disrespectful. And I expect he does the same!
Holy crap!! 14 years? Are you kidding me?? You don't look like it, you really don't!
