感情的是雖然不是外人說怎樣就能怎麼做的,不過每個人都應該相信自己有權過著不被任何暴力對待的生活,每個人都值得過著幸福而不參雜偶爾的受辱。跟各位分享一篇婦運界裡常見的短文,期待所有的男孩,即使女人不愛,也千萬別成為壞男人。
I got flowers today. It wasn't my birthday or any otherspecial day.
我今天收到花了…既非我的生日,也不是什麼特殊的日子
We had our first argument last night,
昨晚我們第一次爭吵
and he said a lot of cruel things that really hurt me.
他說了很多殘忍的話,而那的確刺傷了我..
I know he is sorry and didn't mean the things he said. Because
我知道他很難過,他並不是有意那麼說的,因為..
he sent me flowers today.
他今天送我花了
I got flowers today. It wasn't our anniversary or any other special day.
我今天收到花了…既非我們的結婚紀念日,也不是什麼特殊的日子
Last night, he threw me into a wall and started to choke me.
昨晚他對我拳打腳踢
It seemed like a nightmare. I couldn't believe it was real.
就像是一場惡夢,我不敢相信那是真的
I woke up this morning sore and bruised all over.
早上醒來全身酸痛,到處是瘀青
I know he must be sorry, because
我知道他很難過,因為
he sent me flowers today.
他今天送我花了
I got flowers today, and it wasn't Mother's Day or any other special day.
我今天收到花了…今天不是母親節,也不是什麼特殊的日子
Last night, he beat me up again. And it was much worse than all the other times.
昨晚他又揍我了 .而且比之前更狠、更嚴重
If I leave him, what will I do? How will I take care of my kids?
如果我離開他,那我怎麼辦?我要如何照顧我的小孩?
I'm afraid of him and scared to leave.
我怕他,也怕離開
But I know he must be sorry, because
但我知道他很難過,因為
he sent me flowers today.
他今天送我花了
I got flowers today. Today was a very special day.
我今天收到花了…今天是個非常特殊的一天
It was the day of my funeral.
今天是我出殯的日子
Last night, he finally killed me.
昨晚,他終於殺死了我
He beat me to death.
他把我打的半死
If only I had gathered enough courage and strength to leave him,
如果我有夠多的勇氣及力量離開他
I would not have gotten flowers today.
我今天就不會收到他的花了…
請他滾吧!!!
半年前跟男友分手就是因為他對我脫口說出"XX娘"

2人相處就算再生氣再不愉快都不該出現國罵
就算是生氣時說的話是給畜生聽的
也不該連這種難聽之言
我跟他認識12年
交往斷斷續續相加約8年
可是當那天他這句話說出口時給我當頭棒喝

一個最親近的人連這種話都可以無理智的說出口
該如何跟他相處往後的日子??
更何況當天爭吵的問題跟兩人完全不相干!!!
我很愛他
可是我真的無法忍受他對我口出國罵
何況是在一起那麼久從沒對他惡言相向
決定分手我很傷心
可是與其在讓這句話"xx 娘"再出現
我寧可分手!!

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